So, a little while ago... I was talking to this girl I know and she's really quite fabulous.
The End.
No, just kidding. But I really was talking to her and she is really a wonderful individual. Anyways, I was asking her what my next blog post should be about. She looked through my little list of ideas and she instantly pointed to a particular subject. She told me that a lot of girls that she's acquainted with say that they have s-e-x with their boyfriends just to prove to them how much they love them.
Did you ever play that game where you would stand in a circle and one at a time you would go up to someone and try your hardest to make them smile while saying, "Honey if you love me won't you please, please smile?" And then they would say, "Honey, I love you but I just can't smile." If you smiled, when you said that, you were out of the game. It's a good one. Maybe we'll play it some time.
Boys and girls, your significant other won't die if they don't have s-e-x. You have so many more better options of how to show your bf/gf you care without giving them your body. In fact, when you choose the non-physical ways of showing affection, it gives THEM a better chance to show you that THEY care!
Not having s-e-x helps you to get to know each other (likes, dislikes, strengths, weaknesses, goals, etc.). Staying away from that gives you a clear head so that you can decide if they're the best person for you, and makes it easier to cut the ties if they're not as great as you thought they were. (Who knows, they may have some nasty habit like nose picking... or something even worse. Ew!)
My point is, spend some time (okay, a lot of time.) getting to know the person you like. Break ups won't be as hurtful, and I'm pretty sure that your honey would feel more loved if you showed them with actions and words rather than s-e-x.
Peace Out!
